一、你要相信即使是在極寒的冬日也會(huì)有暖陽出現(xiàn)，那么，世界就會(huì)給你想要的未來。往后余生，你的生活我不參與，我的未來與你無關(guān)，各自安好，過往化作一縷煙，敬往事一杯酒，再愛不回頭！

You have to believe that even in very cold winter there will be warm sunshine， then the world will give you the future you want. For the rest of my life， I will not participate in your life. My future has nothing to do with you. My past turns into a wisp of smoke. Respect for the past， a glass of wine， and never look back!

二、 有的人走著走著就不再聯(lián)系，走著走著就散了，好像一陣夏風(fēng)，吹過了，爽朗一時(shí)，又繼續(xù)熱乎。我們從來不屬于彼此，卻還要偷偷躲在角落為你哭泣，這從來都不是我想要的結(jié)果，可卻輸給了現(xiàn)實(shí)。

Some people walk without contact， walk away， like a summer wind， blowing， bright for a while， and continue to warm up. We never belong to each other， but we have to hide in the corner to cry for you， which is never the result I want， but lost to reality.

三、冷戰(zhàn)的時(shí)候，我也可以堅(jiān)持很久，久到我連一點(diǎn)想跟你說話的欲望都沒有，但也總有一瞬間讓我覺得，就這樣吧，你怎樣都好，不離開就好，面子算什么，脾氣算什么，都沒你重要。

During the cold war， I could also hold on for a long time， until I had no desire to talk to you at all， but there was always a moment when I felt that it was not important for you to be as good as you were， not to leave， face or temper.

四、成年人最體面的告別應(yīng)該就是，你最后那條消息我沒回復(fù)，你也很默契的，沒有再發(fā)。這個(gè)寂寞而混亂的世界，誰的歡顏背后都有往事的陰霾與缺口。你靈魂的樣子，往往會(huì)投射到你的臉上。要想越活越美，就請(qǐng)從內(nèi)心開始修煉。

The most decent farewell for adults should be that I didn't reply to your last message， and you were very understanding and did not send it again. In this lonely and chaotic world， there are hazes and gaps in the past behind everyone's happy face. The look of your soul is often projected on your face. If you want to live more and more beautifully， please begin to practice from your heart.

五、每個(gè)人都可以自由地表達(dá)、充分地表達(dá)，寫意地或者寫實(shí)地表達(dá)，但是永遠(yuǎn)不要試圖告訴其他人，世界就是什么樣子的，或者教導(dǎo)別人應(yīng)該如何去看世界，更加永遠(yuǎn)不要期待別人剛好也看到了你看到的世界。

Everyone can express freely， fully， freely or realistically， but never try to tell others what the world is like， or teach others how to see the world， and never expect others to see the world just as you see it.

六、 人的生命力，是在痛苦的煎熬中強(qiáng)大起來的。層次越高的人對(duì)待感情越專一。因?yàn)樯朴谔幚碜约旱挠?，因而不?huì)把“找備胎”這種膚淺的價(jià)值觀當(dāng)作得意的談資，他們更愿意與某個(gè)人一起扛起生活的風(fēng)雨，因?yàn)闀r(shí)間要用來做正經(jīng)事。所以，左顧右盼并不說明你搶手，花心，是因?yàn)閷哟翁汀?/span>

Man's vitality is strengthened by suffering. The higher the hierarchy， the more focused people are on their emotions. Because they are good at dealing with their own desires， they do not regard the superficial value of "finding spare tires" as a triumphant conversation. They prefer to carry the storm of life with someone because time is used to do serious things. Therefore， looking left and right does not mean that you are in a hurry， because the level is too low.

七、因?yàn)橹挥兄?，才?huì)覺得現(xiàn)在的生活是多么的美好，正所謂是知足常樂。人都會(huì)有心情不好的時(shí)候，說不上的失落，道不明白的難過，理不清的情緒。有個(gè)人，愛過了，就結(jié)束了；有句話，說過了，就后悔了；有道傷，痛過了，就麻木了；有顆心，顫過了，就破碎了。

Because only contentment， will feel how good life is now， which is called contentment and happiness. People will be in a bad mood， can not say the loss， the road does not understand the sadness， the mood can not be sorted out. There is a person who loves and ends; there is a saying， said， regretted; there is a wound， pain， numbness; there is a heart， trembled， broken.

八、愿你忠于自己，活得認(rèn)真；笑得放肆，走也走的瀟灑。過去那些走過的路，丟掉的人，撕裂的往事，別回頭就好。

May you be loyal to yourself and live earnestly， laugh freely and walk freely. Those past roads， lost people， torn past， don't look back.

九、后來，我漸漸學(xué)會(huì)接受而不是付出，就算遇見再心動(dòng)的人也搖搖頭說算了。失望攢夠了就放手，不打擾是我最后的溫柔；愛情就像海灘上的貝殼：不要揀最大的，也不要揀最漂亮的，要揀就揀自己最喜歡的。撿到了以后，就不要再去海灘了。

Later， I gradually learned to accept rather than pay， even if I met someone who was moved again， I shook my head and said yes. When disappointment is enough， let go without disturbing. Love is like a shell on the beach: don't pick the biggest， don't pick the most beautiful， just pick your favorite. When you find it， don't go to the beach anymore.

十、每一個(gè)清晨，給自己一個(gè)微笑，告訴自己！人不僅活得要像鉆石一樣閃亮，還要像鉆石一樣堅(jiān)強(qiáng)!!不唯唯諾諾、不怨天尤人，自己選擇的路就要堅(jiān)持努力向前走！活出真正的自我！天天保持陽光、積極、包容的態(tài)度，好運(yùn)的正能量就每天跟著你。

十一、你的人生不會(huì)辜負(fù)你的。那些轉(zhuǎn)錯(cuò)的彎，那些流下的淚水，那些滴下的汗水，全都讓你成為獨(dú)一無二的自己。如果你想走到高處，就要使用自己的兩條腿！不要讓別人把你抬到高處；不要坐在別人的背上和頭上。我不能給你全世界，但是，我的全世界全都給你。

十二、不想看的東西，你可以把眼閉上。但不愿去想的事情，你卻沒法把心鎖上。

If you don't want to see something， you can close your eyes. But what you don't want to think about， you can't lock your heart.

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十三、喜歡一個(gè)人要把他放在心里可是我心淺啊我藏不住。其實(shí)你所愛的人身上的光環(huán)，是你加上去的，不是對(duì)方自帶的。所以，有些時(shí)候啊，你要放下的不是對(duì)方，而是你自己的執(zhí)念。成長(zhǎng)的路上被辜負(fù)得多了，自然也就學(xué)會(huì)了防衛(wèi)，結(jié)果防住了惡意，也擋住了好意，只剩一身疲倦與孤獨(dú)。

Like a person to put him in mind， but my heart is shallow， I can not hide. In fact， the halo on the person you love is added by you， not brought by the other party. So sometimes， it's not the other person you want to put down， it's your own persistence. Growing up on the road to be much more disappointed， naturally also learned to defend， the result of the prevention of malice， but also blocked the good intentions， leaving only a tired and lonely body.

十四、你永遠(yuǎn)都不知道自己到底有多堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，直到有一天你除了堅(jiān)強(qiáng)別無選擇。

You never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

十五、有些人不是不想去愛，是沒有力氣去愛；有些人不是不能去愛，是沒有勇氣去愛；有些人不是不敢去愛，是沒有能力去愛；…愛的力量莫過于你愛他也愛你，愛的勇氣無非是你愛他就直接告訴他，可是愛的能力卻是你想愛就能愛的力量和勇氣，如果你沒有，那么就只有錯(cuò)過…時(shí)光不在，往昔不在，我們也就必將散落天涯。

Some people do not want to love， is not strong enough to love; some people are not unable to love， is not courageous to love; some people are not afraid to love， is not able to love; The power of love is nothing more than that you love him and love you. The courage of love is nothing more than that you love him and tell him directly. But the power of love is the power and courage that you can love if you want to. If you don't have it， you can only miss it. Time is absent， the past is absent， we will also scatter the horizon.