一、哪有什么錯過的人，會離開的都是路人。哪有什么命運不公，都是懶惰讓你變得無能。雨水落下來是因為天空無法承受它的重量，眼淚掉下來是因為心再也無法承受那樣的傷痛。

Whatever misses， passers-by will leave. What fate is unfair is that laziness makes you incompetent. Rain falls because the sky can not bear its weight， tears fall because the heart can no longer bear the pain.

二、年紀越大，越會發(fā)現(xiàn)社交的種種不堪，所以，踏實的掌握一門生存的技能，認真發(fā)展一個獨處的愛好，永遠都不會錯。雖然現(xiàn)實中有很多我們無法控制的事情，可我們都要學會坦然接受，接受每一次的意外，接受每一次的不期而遇。

the older you get， the more you will find all kinds of social problems. Therefore， it's never wrong to grasp a survival skill and seriously develop a hobby of solitude. Although there are many things we can't control in reality， we should learn to accept them calmly， accepting every accident， accepting every unexpected encounter.點擊

三、最美的相遇，不言過往；最好的離別，不問歸期。下雨了，我就給你撐傘；不喜歡我了，我就給你找新歡；你先快樂，我的事以后再說。趁年輕去吃苦，去拼搏，等年老時，回憶里滿是驕傲，這是別人給不了你的。

the most beautiful encounter， do not talk about the past; the best parting， do not ask the return date. If it rains， I'll give you an umbrella; if I don't like me， I'll find you a new lover; you'll be happy first， and I'll talk about it later. Take advantage of the young to bear hardships， to struggle， and so on old age， the memory is full of pride， which others can not give you.

四、心是最大的騙子。別人騙你一時，它卻騙你一輩子。心累，就是常常徘徊在堅持和放棄之間，舉棋不定。煩惱，就是記性太好，該記的，不該記的都會留在記憶里。

the heart is the biggest cheater. When someone deceives you for a while， it deceives you for a lifetime. Heart tired， is often hovering between persistence and abandonment， uncertain. Trouble， is that memory is too good， should remember， should not remember will remain in memory.

五、一個女人是否自愛，看她是否愿意取悅自己。一個不懂得取悅自己的人也很難擁有魅力。喜歡你的人，要你的現(xiàn)在；愛你的人，會給你未來。而能跟你一輩子的人就是：理解你的過去，并包容你的現(xiàn)在，一起創(chuàng)造共同的未來。

whether a woman loves herself or not depends on whether she is willing to please herself. It's hard for a person who doesn't know how to please himself to have charm. Those who like you want your present; those who love you will give you the future. And the person who can be with you for a lifetime is: Understand your past， embrace your present， and create a common future together.

七、沒娶的別慌，待嫁的別忙。經(jīng)營好自己，珍惜眼前的時光，及時盡孝，一切該來的總會到。這世上只有一種成功叫：“用自己喜歡的方式過一生”。安詳?shù)膼郏缤瑹o浪的海灘，我要的只是守在你的身邊。

Don't panic if you don't marry. Don't be busy if you want to marry. Manage yourself well， cherish the time in front of you， do filial piety in time， everything will come. There is only one kind of success in the world: to live your life in the way you like. Peaceful love is like a beach without waves. All I want is to be by your side.

八、當別人在睡覺，我們在奔跑；當別人在抱怨，我們在改變；當別人在猶豫，我們在繼續(xù)；當別人在觀望，我們在路上……他們選擇幾年后成為今天的我們，我們選擇幾年后創(chuàng)造新的奇跡。

When others are sleeping， we are running; when others are complaining， we are changing; when others are hesitating， we are continuing; when others are watching， we are on the road…… They chose to be us in a few years， and we chose to create new miracles in a few years.

九、人生軌跡不一定是按你喜歡的方式運行的。有些事你可以不喜歡，但不得不做；有些人你可以不喜歡，但不得不交往。當遇到那些自己不喜歡卻又無力改變的事時，唯一能做的就是忍耐。忍過寂寞的黑夜天就亮了；耐過寒冷的冬天春天就到了。練就波瀾不驚的忍耐，再艱難的歲月，也只不過是浮云。

The trajectory of life does not necessarily run in the way you like. There are things you can dislike but have to do; there are people you can dislike but have to deal with. When you encounter things you don't like but can't change， the only thing you can do is to be patient. After the loneliness of the night， the day will be bright; after the cold of winter， spring will come. Practicing endurance without alarm， no matter how difficult the years are， they are just clouds.

十、 人生是一盤棋，子已落定就不能反悔。你若能保持一顆平常心，按本色做人，按角色辦事，按特色定位，不以失為憂，不以得為喜，人生就可時時安樂。安守一顆平常心，人生才能笑看風云。

Life is a chess game. Once a child is settled， he can't repent. If you can maintain an ordinary mind， act according to your nature， act according to your role， and orientate yourself according to your characteristics， you can live happily at all times without worrying about your losses or rejoicing in your gains. Keep an ordinary heart， life can laugh at the wind and clouds.

十一、我可以哭，可以笑，可以執(zhí)著，卻無法擺脫我的軟弱。人，因簡單而快樂。也許天長地久可以做如此解，你一生中只要有那么一刻，你全心投入去愛一個人，那一刻也就是永恒。你一生中有那么一段路，有一個人與你互相扶持，共御風雨，那么那一段也就勝過終身了。

I can cry， laugh， persevere， but I can't get rid of my weakness. People are happy because they are simple. Maybe you can understand this for a long time. As long as there is a moment in your life， when you devote yourself to loving someone， that moment is eternity. There is a way in your life， a person and you support each other， together withstand the wind and rain， then that section is better than life.

十二、你所做的一切不能讓每個人都滿意，不要為了討好別人而丟失自己的本性，因為每個人都有原則和自尊。他只字未提我愛你，你卻句句都是我愿意，他不過是曖昧成癮，而你卻輕易走了心。有的人該忘就忘了吧，所謂的念念不忘，在自己眼里，是愛，在對方眼里，是煩，在別人眼里是賤。

he did not mention that I love you， but you are all I want， he is only ambiguous addiction， but you easily go away. Some people should forget it， so-called mindfulness， in their own eyes， is love， in the eyes of the other party， is annoying， in the eyes of others is cheap.

十四、我們曾渴望命運的波瀾，到最后才發(fā)現(xiàn)，人生最曼妙的風景，竟是內(nèi)心的淡定與從容；我們曾期盼外界的認可，到最后才知道，世界是自己的，與他人毫無關系；我們曾計較付出的回報，到最后才懂得，一切得到終將失去的，只能空留一抹浮名。走好自己的路，別選擇好走的路，你才能擁有真正的自己。

We longed for the waves of fate， until we finally found that the most beautiful scenery in life was inner calmness and calmness; we looked forward to the recognition of the outside world， until the end， we knew that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others; we thought about the rewards paid， and finally learned that everything will be lost， only to leave a false name. Take your own way， don't choose the right way， you can have a real self.

十六、任何時候，應該清醒的知道，別人的想法，與你沒多大關聯(lián)，而你自己的想法，是決定你一生的關鍵。我們永遠不要期待別人的拯救，只有自己才能升華自己。自己已準備好了多少容量，方能吸引對等的人與我們相遇，否則再美好的人出現(xiàn)、再動人的事情降臨身邊，我們也沒有能量去理解與珍惜，終將擦肩而過。

At any time， you should be aware that other people's ideas have little to do with you， and your own ideas are the key to your life. We should never expect the salvation of others， only ourselves can sublimate ourselves. How much capacity we have prepared to attract our peers to meet us， otherwise we will not have the energy to understand and cherish the beautiful people and the touching things that will come to us， and we will pass by in the end.

十七、愛情就是這樣，沒什么道理可講，你最想給的，卻不是他想要的?？v然你有千萬優(yōu)點，偏偏他只貪戀另一人的缺點。

Love is like this. There is no reason to say. What you want most is not what he wants. Even if you have ten million advantages， he only covets the shortcomings of another person.

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十八、盡管我們也無法解釋，但我們?nèi)韵牖钕氯ィ牖顒?，因為這是人的天性使然。如果不這樣，生命就會死亡。也正是由于生命的原由，你才夢想永生。你體內(nèi)的生命力生機勃勃，促使你夢想不朽。

Although we can't explain it， we still want to live and move， because it's human nature. If not， life will die. It is precisely because of the cause of life that you dream of eternal life. Vigorous life in you makes your dreams immortal.